With profound simplicity, Coach John Wooden redefines success and urges us all to pursue the best in ourselves. In this inspiring talk he shares the advice he gave his players at UCLA, quotes poetry and remembers his father’s wisdom.
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Prioritize things. List the things you want to do and those you have to do. Include the time you spend eating, showering, etc. Start your day with something productive, maybe slow things down in the afternoon, and then get back to work or take care of chores in the evening. Leave the night open for relaxing. Cross off the things you accomplished and make a list for the next day of anything you didn’t finish.
Selectively lower your confidence. You read it right: lower your confidence. It’s a truism in business that you need to have high self-confidence to get things done. But some people think, and for good reason, that lower self-confidence makes people more successful, for these reasons:
Employee service is a commitment from the leader to provide the employee with a high level of service to satisfy the employee’s needs, Employees have many needs and by satisfying these needs the leader will engage the employee’s discretionary effort of their people.
Those who had observed Nelson Mandela closely said he always carried himself as someone who was born to lead, who knew the meaning of leadership. As an icon of freedom and the most vivid example of the power of forgiveness and reconciliation, he displayed a conspicuous sense of dignity and humanity that nothing in 27 years of imprisonment had been capable of destroying. As an activist and a guerrilla leader he challenged the apartheid state and was prepared to die for the ideal of a democratic and free society in which all people live together in harmony and with equal opportunities. In 1994 he led the African National Congress into government in South Africa.
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David Jeffries of Allmusic noted the song as a standout track from Ready. Andrew Rennie of Now Magazine called a “cautionary anthem” and the song the top track on the album. Rennie also said that “Successful” and “Black Roses”, showcase Songz’s developed, more mature side. Sean Fennessey of The Village Voice said, “The calm, yearning song is a bona fide hit, and also the best example of where r&b lives today.” DJBooth said that there was “no reason to doubt that this track will become a mainstream smash.” Shaheem Reid of MTV News said, “It’s not a record that will kill the clubs, but when you just want to listen to superb lyricism and enthralling harmony, it’s a must have.” Rolling Stone ranked the song seventeen on their list of “Best 25 Songs of 2009” list, and Spin ranked it the tenth best song of 2009 on their “The 20 Best Songs of 2009” list.
Explain that your coach is looking out for your team’s best interests. Show your teammates that your coach knows his stuff and should be trusted. This will keep your team strong and will make you look like a fair leader.
A company has to make money to stay in business. That means bringing money in the door, and it means spending less than you bring in. Depending on your function in the organization, you may have more influence on one area or the other, but you need to understand both. You can help your company, your employees, and yourself be getting better at managing the company’s money.
What most people do: Say they’re going to start training by running 3 miles, 4 days a week. They accomplish their goal for the first week or two but soon life gets in the way. Then they run “whenever they get a chance.”
The Law of Respect states that people naturally respect and follow leaders who rank higher than them on the leadership scale. So, if you’re a 7, you’ll be the leader in a room of 6s and below but as soon as an 8 walks in, you’ll look to them.
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You should never expect others to do it for you, not even your partner, friend or boss. They are all busy with their own needs. No one will make you happy or achieve your goals for you. It’s all on you.